Friday, August 11, 2017

13 ways to simplify your wardrobe




The podcast (below) is epic! I couldn’t stop with the ad-libs :)


Continuing on from my simple life post last week, today I had a think about what a simple wardrobe would consist of.  How can we simplify our wardrobes so that we look forward to choosing an outfit for the day.

When you love looking after your clothes, organising them and spending time with them, you will be less tempted to go out shopping unless you really need something.  I have found that much more satisfaction is gained from staying at home and working on an area to fix it, rather than ignoring it and going out instead.  On the times when I have done this I’ve bought something dumb, and my wardrobe (or whatever area) is still in a mess!

To avoid an unhappy shopping trip, please join me for my thirteen favourite ways to simplify – and love – your wardrobe.

One. Choose your favourite colours and focus on those, instead of having tons of different colours.  You can create interest with varying shades of those colours, and textures.  If you want variation, add scarves.

Two. Make sure everything is in good order.  My wardrobe always seems more appealing and it’s simpler to get dressed when I have taken the time to shave my jerseys with my pilling gadget.  Pulling tiny snags in knits through to the back with a tiny crochet hook works wonders too.

Three. Hang everything for the current season.  This tip is in a chapter in my book Thirty Chic Days called ‘Day 12. Curate your wardrobe like it is your own bijou boutique’.  By hanging everything, even tee-shirts in the summer or knit jerseys in the winter (items I would normally keep in my dresser drawers), it means you can easily see everything you have for the season.  Fold off-season items and put them in your drawers instead.

Four. Come up with a handful of essence words to describe your ideal style.  You can keep them in mind when dressing or shopping; they will assist in the curation of your stylish closet.  Some of mine are casual, elegant, simple, neutral, feminine and sensual.

Five. Change the way you store things.  By this I mean if you currently hang items wherever, put them in groups of colours, or like items.  Your eye gets used to how an area looks; by having a rummage and moving hangers, you get reacquainted (and re-excited) about your clothes.

Six. If something doesn’t excite you, get rid of it!  Don’t keep anything that makes you feel frumpy, reminds you of a bad experience, has holes in it or looks tired.  Even if you haven’t actually gotten rid of these clothes yet, just having them out of your closet brings a sense of peace and calm to it.

Seven. Hone in on the silhouettes that work best for you.  For me, it’s skinny legs and a more voluminous top.  When I wear my wide-leg pants I don’t feel as good.  Knowing this stops me when I am tempted by wide-leg pants because I love the Diane Keaton look.

Eight. Have a bra and undie cleanout.  If there are undies that cut in because they’re too small, or look stretched out of shape, bin them.  If you have uncomfortable bras, go get a fitting for a new one.  I currently only have a sports bra and two nice bras, because I had a big cleanout.  If they are still in good nick, just a bad buy, donate them so someone else can use it.

Nine. Separate your scarves into summer and winter.  I wasn’t wearing my scarves as much and it wasn’t until I put all the lightweight and silky scarves into one container, and woolly scarves into another that I found them more appealing.  I wasn’t digging through my summer scarves to find a warm one that went with my outfit that day.

Ten. Have items where you can see them as much as possible.  I have noticed this hugely with our new walk-in wardrobe: it’s so much easier to get dressed when I can see everything!  It means I don’t reach for the same bag or pair of shoes either.  If I still had my old reach-in wardrobe, I would have my current season clothes, shoes and accessories front and centre, with less used items such as a dress to wear to a wedding, pushed to the side.

Eleven. Ask yourself, if I had to pack a bag to go away for a week, what would I take?  This focuses the mind and you will find yourself curating a small and perfectly formed wardrobe.  You will also see what gaps there are which could vastly improve the mix-and-matchability of your capsule collection.

Twelve. Daydream with unlimited possibility.  The more I think about what I want to wear as I go about day to day life as my ideal French girl Sabine, pottering in my chic and tiny Paris apartment, the more I come back to the classic and the basic.

The perfect white cotton shirt
The perfect pair of jeans
The most flattering of sheer red, and beigy-pink lipsticks
Pearl studs, diamond studs
One great watch (very plain) to wear with everything
Items I will keep for years, updating slightly when replacing
Wearing navy, red, white, black, grey, camel and beige

These thoughts inspire me to be happy with a modestly-sized wardrobe and cures any thoughts of shopping out of boredom.  I have found from experience that it is so much more satisfying when you actually have a need, versus shopping for leisure.

Thirteen. Think back to what inspired you as a young woman.  What looks were you drawn to as a teen or when in your twenties?  I love to think about this and get that happy, sparkling feeling inside that I had back then.  My teen years were the 1980s, and I remember making my own clothes with lace, linen, paisley and tartan back then (not all at once, or maybe I did!).

I was op-shopping with my mother and aunty last week, and found a red tartan Scottish 100% lambswool fringed scarf for $4 in perfect new-looking condition.  It made me so happy looking at it that I bought it.  After a gentle wool wash and being dried on the clothesline outside, I wore it with an all-black outfit and felt great.

If you have a tip to simplify your wardrobe, please do share it in the comments below, or maybe you’d like to tell us about something (like my tartan) that brings back good memories from your younger days that you love to incorporate into your look now.

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Monday, August 7, 2017

A simple life

Daffodils at our new house

When I think about it, my background dream is always to have a simple life.  I sometimes ignore my inner guidance and clutter myself up with too much, but for the most part I am winning.  Moving out of the city to a less populated area and living in the country (but five minutes from civilisation) is part of it.  Decluttering and streamlining is part of it too.

The sun rising on another glorious Hawke's Bay day - from our sitting room

Another aspect of my dream simple life is to have time to be and to have a loosely structured day.  When we sold our business at the end of last year and suddenly did not have a seven days a week business to run, I realized that I had been getting somewhere by a certain time since I was five years old - for forty-one years!  First school, then work, then our business.  Apart from school holidays as a child and a three-week trip in 2001, I have never had extended time off.

Shall we sit outdoors and have a tea?

It takes time to get into a structure though.  At first you think you'll just magically fall into a wonderful daily routine and get all those things done that you always wanted to but never had time.  That did not happen.  As I have heard other people say and as you may have experienced yourself - tasks expand to fill the available time.  That's why giving yourself an artificial deadline can be so useful.  Then you can use the rest of the time to do something fun.

See those two lemon trees past the daffodils?  There is ALWAYS a lemon on the driveway having rolled down the hill

It seems silly to have to be intentional about hobbies and have them written into your diary, but it's true, otherwise you'll constantly put them aside because there is a more important job to do.  That's how it works out for me anyway.

I love our clothesline - covered in case of rain showers but always sunny; it catches the breeze nicely too

What other things have I found belong in my simple life?



Feeling abundant by not having too much around me.  I feel the most broke when I'm surrounded by too much stuff.  To me it feels 'rich' to have a home that is sparse, organized, simplified and calming to the eye.

Also, 'still time' to write in a journal and let my mind wander.  I haven't really journaled much, well not on any regular basis, and I've been enjoying a new habit of going to our bedroom between dinner and bedtime to play spa music softly and sit up on our bed with a pillow behind my back surrounded by my journal(s), current book, Kindle, notepad and tap into my creativity and quiet mind.  When I write in my journal I'll ask myself a question, then list down all the answers that flow from me.  This is one of my favourite times of the day; I sleep well after doing this too.

My husband hard at work mowing our huge lawn.  From start to finish it took him two hours...

When I take the time to find out what makes me happy and do more of that, it helps me happily do my everyday errands; so it's actually the opposite of selfish.  I'm sure I am a nicer person to live with also.

It doesn't need to be something like reading or sewing either.  Washing my makeup brushes and tidying up my petite collection of makeup seems frivolous, but the next day when I put my makeup on it's a joy.  Everything seems new even though I've not been shopping.  Taking care of what I already own is such a gratifying pleasure.

And chopping wood for our fire

I like to keep my wardrobe simple too, but perhaps we'll talk about that in another post.  Tell me about your simple life - what keeps you feeling calm, content and at peace?  Make a cup of tea and tell me all about it in the comments.  Won't you share?  Soothe me with your shimmering vision :)

Fiona

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Saturday, July 29, 2017

New home tour part 2

My favourite 'room' in the house - built-in bookshelves in the hall

We have been in our new home for just over two weeks now, and I wanted to share with you how we are settling in so far.  All boxes are unpacked and have been collected by the removal company for recycling, so things are getting back to normal for us.

It will take time to get everything looking the way we want it too, and I have already started a wishlist of items to hopefully tick off over time.

First up is the master bedroom.  It is lovely and roomy, and has an ensuite bathroom off it as well as a walk-in wardrobe (I took a video below).

Spot the leopard-print cat caves just beyond the bed :)

Fresh Daphne from my mum's garden - have you ever smelt Daphne?  It has a gorgeous scent.

I recorded this one-minute video of my new walk-in wardrobe.  Having a wardrobe space like this is a dream come true for me.  I can't wait for it to evolve into my own chic bijoux boutique over time. Ooh la la!



In our main living area, it is sort of an L shape, and has the sofa area as well as the dining area.  It is beautiful and sunny and looks out to our open Hawke's Bay view.  I won't lie; it's a magnificent view :)

This little nooks gets the sun from sunrise to sunset; if you can't find the cats, they will be here sunbathing their tummies

Non-staged living room :)

When we ordered our new sofas (a few years ago now), the store owner told us to get a scratching post for the cats.  We listened to him and we don't have a single hole in our sofa (unlike our previous sofas).  Having a fluffy scratching post with a bell on it in the living room is a small price to pay!

I love our kitchen; it looks out over the same view as the main living room.  It has a big pantry as well as plenty of cupboards, and a roller-door space you can see on the right.  I love having tea and coffee and our cups in there for easy hot drinks.

Like the house, the kitchen is 17 years old, but it feels brand new to me being ten years younger and and of a higher quality than our last kitchen.  I feel so lucky!

Facing the kitchen is our second, smaller sitting room with a woodburner.  It is empty at the moment because we have run out of furniture!  I don't know about you, but this is a problem I have never encountered when moving house.  Usually it's a problem fitting everything in.  It is so nice having plenty of space that I don't even mind.

We are going to go shopping to choose a sofa and two chairs perhaps, to make a winter snug/casual sitting room.

That's Nina-cat in the photo in case you were wondering (my little photobomber)
I hope you enjoyed our new home tour.  I'll be sure to update you when we fill our empty room!

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